Reflections for The Dark Season

Reflections for The Dark Season

Yoga Sutra 1.2 tells us that the ultimate aim of yoga is to quiet the fluctuations of the mind – to reach true clarity. The yogic sages described the disturbances that pull us away from that clarity as the kleshas. They name five of them: ignorance, attachment, aversion, ego, and the fear of death. Of these, I feel that the fear of death – abhinivesha – is often the least discussed.

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The Art of Doing Nothing

The Art of Doing Nothing

Are you good at doing nothing? Even for just a few minutes? Most of us aren’t. It certainly doesn’t come easily to me. When were we ever taught how? Certainly not in school. Not in the productivity-focused culture we live in. Not on Instagram, where folks are always producing content on how to create, influence, hack, or improve something. Doing nothing is rarely modeled for us, let alone encouraged. So I wonder, could we get good at it?

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Some Gifts for You

Some Gifts for You

Welcome to December. For those of us in the northern hemisphere, these are the days of growing dark and cold. I personally love these days, even with my S.A.D. tendency. I love to pull out my warm socks and sweaters, the fuzzy hand warmers, the knit hats. I love to dig out my favorite soup and chili recipes. I love the ambiance of our gas fireplace – it’s a magnet for my little, old dog, Dodge. I love my morning practice illuminated by only a candle and my fairy lights. I usually have a pile of books about a foot tall on my nightstand, and I actually make solid progress this time of year.

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9 Ways I Cope with SAD in the Winter

9 Ways I Cope with SAD in the Winter

Do you get so-called S.A.D. (Seasonal Affective Disorder), too? While I had a lot of experience with chronic depression in my teens and 20s, I hadn’t experienced the general malaise of the winter blues until I moved to Seattle… where we get an hour and a half less sunlight in the depths of winter than in my previous home of San Francisco. Through the years, I’ve found out that I’m not alone – this seems to be a common state for many folks I’ve met.

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"How will you grow what is already good?"

"How will you grow what is already good?"

I sometimes attend a daytime gathering called Daybreaker – part yoga, part dance, part joyful celebration of community. It begins with a yoga practice, followed by dancing, healthy snacks, and connection. Each event has a unique theme – at the last one I attended, there were prompt cards scattered around the space, each with a quote on one side and a question on the other.

The card I picked asked: “How will you grow what is already good?”

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The Magic of Restorative Yoga

The Magic of Restorative Yoga

Restorative Yoga is designed to stimulate the parasympathetic nervous system – often called “rest and digest.” When this system is activated, the body moves toward homeostasis, or balance. In a culture that prizes productivity, speed, and efficiency above almost everything else, choosing to rest can feel countercultural, even rebellious – like we are “wasting our time”. But, in fact, it’s one of the most powerful choices we can make.

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Farewell, sweet José

Farewell, sweet José

Our pets are some of our greatest teachers. They effortlessly demonstrate how to be present. They show us how to listen to the body’s wisdom, play with abandon, delight in simple joys, rest without guilt – and that we should get treats on a regular basis! They embody unconditional love. And they remind us of life’s hardest truth: nothing lasts forever – everyone we love will someday die.  What is all of that, if not the teachings of yoga?

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I don't want to be a "social media influencer"

I don't want to be a "social media influencer"

I’ve been considering this ubiquitous and trendy idea of “influencer” that has gained common parlance over the past 20 years. It’s one of those terms that didn’t exist when I was growing up, even though the concept of leveraging your fame to influence other people’s opinions, actions, and beliefs is far from new – social media has simply turned it into a frenzied cacophony.

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What Makes Yoga Therapy Unique?

What Makes Yoga Therapy Unique?

In my previous newsletter, I shared what yoga therapy is. Today, I want to talk about what makes it different – and why it might feel so unique if you’ve experienced only group yoga classes or other kinds of holistic care. Yoga is often thought of as “exercise” from the American fitness-centric perspective. You’ve probably heard people say, “I’m not good at yoga – I’m not flexible!” or “I’m not in shape enough to do yoga.” To which I say, let’s talk.

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